Moms who skate

Meet Orpa & Vicky – They are both fierce roller derby skaters and moms. Read how they juggle motherhood and skating, and how they feel about skating:

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜’๐˜€ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐—ผ๐—ณ 2…
Orpa, 40 years old
Derby name: Beatchix Kiddo

๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€?
18 and 8

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐs?
February 2023

๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ?

(especially making time to come to practice)
I’m a single mom. I skip one practice every 2nd week, all other practices my eldest daughter looks after my youngest or she is with her dad.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด?

EVERYTHING. The sweat, the community, the confidence, the strength I’ve built in my body. It’s the best gift I could’ve given myself. As a mom, you give a lot of yourself to your kids, forgetting that if you nurture yourself, you can be the best version of yourself – for you and everyone else. This is something for just me and it’s my mental and physical haven. It’s hard to imagine I ever lived without it!

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ?

They’re super proud! And think it’s badass. They get so excited watching me play and having them there to cheer me on at bouts gives me such fire.

*****

๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜ ๐˜‚๐—ฝ, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐Ÿฏ…
Vicky Alvarez Campos.
41 years old
Derby name: Vixen

๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€?
7, 5 and almost 3 years old.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐs?
I started skating a year and a half ago. I used to rollerblade as a kid but only took on rollerskating very recently.

๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ?

Committing to practice twice a week might not seem easy but the time (7 to 9pm) works quite well for me. If it was earlier, it wouldnโ€™t be so easy. Before leaving for practice on Tuesdays and Thursdays, everyone at home has eaten, bathed and are ready for bed. Iโ€™m very thankful for my husband as he always encourages me to go – I think he can tell Iโ€™m a happier person and better wife when I go to Roller Derby.

Itโ€™s not easy as a mom to make and allow time to ourselves. Iโ€™ve learnt (after 3 kids ) that allowing time and doing an activity that is just for me and not for my family, makes me more fulfilled and therefore a better mom.
I want my children to know that Iโ€™m a good mother but Iโ€™m not selfless; I also have my hobbies and friends at Roller Derby.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด?
I love so many things about skating and Roller Derby! First of all, itโ€™s a full body workout and a super fun one – the two hours practice go by so fast! Thereโ€™s so much to learn and you can see the progress within those initial 12-week basic courseโ€ฆ From barely going forward to going backwards, knowing how to stop in different ways and doing cool tricks – itโ€™s super rewarding. I love that Roller Derby is a team sport; we work hard but we also laugh hard. When I go to practice, I can leave all my day worries aside and just focus on my feet and not falling.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ?
My kids canโ€™t wait to be old enough for them to also be able to skate with their mom. They love that I wear cool skates and a shiny helmet. They have come to watch the two Bouts I played in and was really nice seeing them on the sideline supporting me.
My 5 year old says that she will be a Roller Derby coach – she loves giving me strategy tips on how to block and โ€œrun with the starโ€.

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